Tuesday, June 30, 2009

At Bat With the Lord


What a night. It was the first game in the little league world series. We were down by 3 and Tim was up to bat. My stomach turned for him as he approached home plate. Tim had been in a slump for some time. Batting practice was always a success, but during games he would just freeze up. He said he couldn't get the thought of losing for his team our of his head. The pressure was too much and Tim would either strike out or walk every time. The ball had not met the bat during a game - not once in a very long time.

During batting practice, Tim would hit pop flies, grounders and line drives. I would watch him bat, sometimes talking him through the pitch. I would make jokes, remind him to watch the ball or tell him to lighten up. It seemed to help.

So, tonight when it was Tim's turn at bat, I decided to leave my usual place sitting in the outfield. I walked up behind home plate and gave my boy some of those reminders. His first swing was a miss, so I told him to relax. Stepping out of the batters box, he turned and smiled - letting me know he knew I was there. After two balls and my cheers for watching the ball, there came the perfect pitch. Tim hit a line drive which bounced past the pitcher and over the second basemen. Finally, my boy was out of his batting slump. Finally, he hit the ball without worry.

After the game, I asked Tim what was so different about this time at bat. He was relaxed and confident up at the plate - I asked him why and expected him to say the cheers were a good distraction, no outs on the board made him relaxed or it was one of the last games so he gave it his all. However, that wasn't it. He told me he was ready to hit the ball because he sat in the dugout and prayed about it. He asked God to ease his worry and allow him to relax up at bat. He prayed that he would just go out there and hit the ball.

There I was thinking Tim was using some sort of strategic baseball technique or allowing the cheers from the stands to help him... When all along it was his faith in God and allowing himself to be led by the Lord. So, while Tim took the time to turn to the Lord in his time of need, I learned I should never sell my son short at bat, by the dugout or in his heart.

Could a mom be any more proud of her son coming out of his hitting slump?
~Great game tonight, Tim, and great batting!

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Summer Camp '09

My boy is at camp this week. We dropped him off Sunday afternoon. We will see him Friday evening when we meet up with him at "family campfire." I love attending this event. After 6 days of missing my first born, 6 evenings at the dinner table with his place left empty, and 6 nights of tucking in the girls and walking past his dark bedroom, I am thrilled to see Tim from across the campfire.

And, yes, I go right up to my boy and give him a big, fat hug and kiss! It's the only time I get to without Tim telling me I am embarrassing him to death.

Friday, May 29, 2009

A Ladies' Man

Oh, I think we are in for it with our handsome Haitian son...



Monday, May 4, 2009

GUESS WHAT???!???!!???!!??



One year after Mama Colleen brought down all the papers for our adoption, our file is finally in IBESR!!! That means our adoption is officially filed here in Haiti. We can now pray asking Social Services to approve our file.

It took a while for all the paperwork to be ready. Daniel had to be declared an orphan, have a birth certificate made and receive a Consent to Adopt filing from the mayor. All of that is now completed and Social Services will work on approving Mama Colleen and Papa Mike to adopt in Haiti.

Please pray with us everyday that our file will be approved and we can become part of the Monfils' family!

Love,
Daniel and Jonathan

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Someone is enjoying having his picture taken lately....Thanks for the pic, Megan!

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Monday, March 16, 2009

Would you please join us in prayer this week? We are hoping for some movement with the boys' adoption file in Haiti. If movement takes place, Jonathan is that much closer to being in the United States recieving the medical care he needs.



Saturday, February 21, 2009

Stingray City - Grand Cayman '09

We chartered a boat with our friends and headed out to Stingray City earlier in the week. This is the place in the bay where the stingray all migrate because tourists visit with chump, squid and other yummy treats. Although the stingrays are wild, they are gentle and swim around as if they enjoy the human company.
Tim was the only one of the kids who would get into the water. Megan and Kate preferred watching from the boat. I was able to get Meg to agree to dangle her legs off the side of the boat to at least feel the animals. That in itself was a huge step! Maybe next year, she'll even step onto the ladder.

Many of us spent the afternoon diving for conch shells, starfish and lobster. Only Mike was brave enough to eat the conch dip later on during the cruise, but we all enjoyed a taster lobster dinner that night.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009


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Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Prayer Request

We have some very special friends who are in the midst of adopting from Haiti. Tomorrow is a BIG day in their adoption journey. Would you please take the time and pray for them? Please pray that both Sarah and Isaiah Daniel's files will be approved & released from IBESR this week.



These families have been waiting a very long time for approval from Haitian Social Services. I have a very peaceful feeling about tomorrow's meeting and so hope good news is sent their way, as well!

Thank you for your prayers! I know our friends appreciate them!!!