our peeps

Our Little Rah

2010-08-30T13:45:00.005-05:00

Those who know me, know I would never have been caught carrying pompoms, shouting chants or cheering on the sideline. I was the one in the stands wearing the school colors, starting the "wave" with the crowds and spraying cans of silly string throughout the bleachers. However, Megan has definitely turned out to be the cheerleader of the family thus far!

With the lack of anything better to do this summer, Megan decided to try out for the junior tackle football league cheer squad in May. It was either that, or mom and dad were going to make her join swim team. We had made it a family rule that everyone find something productive to do this summer. To our surprise, as she has never had any past cheer experience, Meg made the squad and spent the warm months of vacation learning cheers, stunts and poise. And, she absolutely loves it!

We are all enjoying spending Saturday afternoons watching Megan and her friends cheer on the Rochelle Hubs 6th grade football team. It's been a great way to spend sunny afternoons. More than anything, it's been great to watch our little girl enjoying something as much as she does.

Blogging Through the Whirlwind

2010-08-26T20:56:00.007-05:00

I'm back to blogging. Why? 'Cuz I need to. 'Cuz I want to. 'Cuz I should. I need to be celebrating all the blessings in our lives. I want to have a record of all the milestones our family achieves and all the fun that happens. I should be doing this so my kids have something to look back on and for others to see what's happening in our lives now.

The past 7 months have been a whirlwind in slow motion. When the boys arrived home unexpectedly while Mike and I tried to help manage relief efforts for Three Angels, life was crazy. In so many ways it seems as if days before me were wild and out of my control. There were so many kids in our house and I was just trying to hold it all together. Yet, on the other hand, time seemed to stand still as we tried to help our dear loved ones down in Haiti live an unimaginable nightmare through the effects of the earthquake.

Seven months later, I can say life has drastically slowed down. The boys are settled into routines, and we all have adjusted to our roles in our new family. We had an incredibly fun summer swimming, playing and getting to know one another better. Now that school is back in session, we are in the swing of busy schedules, but schedules nonetheless. It has been pure joy having our family together as we run through this whirlwind of a life.

It was so wonderful seeing the kids together on the first day of school. It was surreal watching ALL FIVE preparing for such an exciting day. Even more exciting was the fact that I could watch this all happen today; not two years down the road. Our Haitian sons were here with us getting ready for school with their brother and sisters. God has truly blessed us! I am so grateful He brought our boys home to live this wild and crazy whirlwind of a life I am gonna blog about!

First Day of School ~ August 17, 2010

Tim (7th grade), Megan (6th grade), Kate (3rd grade), Daniel (kindergarten) and Jonathan (preschool)

"Ditto..." To the Title Below...

2010-03-18T00:32:00.005-05:00

Haiti Still Suffers When Cameras Are Gone

by Bill Whitaker

The cameras are gone; Haiti is off the front pages. Now two months later, it's possible for those who experienced the magnitude 7.0 earthquake through the media to think of the devastation and the humanitarian crisis that followed in the past tense. Chile and health care and

unemployment demand our attention. For the people of Haiti, however, the crisis continues — a constant, inescapable, overwhelming reality.

I was in Haiti for a month, arriving one week after the quake. The first week I spent in shock. I had lived through the Northridge quake that rocked Los Angeles in 1984. That was horrible. But nothing prepared me for the horror I encountered in Port-au-Prince.

Block after block after block was leveled. So many people in that impoverished Caribbean country had little to begin with. The earthquake left hundreds of thousands with nothing but their faith and their spirit.

I saw that faith and spirit in abundance. My CBS News crew and I met a middle-class woman, Madame Yolene Bartroni, whose house was the only one in her poor neighborhood still standing — cracked and unlivable, but standing. She opened the gates of her property to neighbors. More than 100 children, women and men joined Madame Bartroni and her family sleeping under makeshift tents in the yard.

Two weeks after the quake, no aid agencies had made it to her part of Port-au-Prince. So, with her salary as a hotel receptionist (she was one of the lucky Haitians still to have a job), she bought water and food and medicine and diapers. When she ran out of money, she tapped her family in the U.S., which used social networks to gather donations. Grateful neighbors say were it not for Madame Bartroni they'd be homeless and hungry in the streets. Holding back tears, Madame Bartroni told us they struggle to live day to day.

We saw that kind of giving every single day. People who had little sharing with those who had nothing.

It would have been understandable if Haitians had cursed their fate, but we witnessed just the opposite. Haitians are people of deep faith.

They marked the one month anniversary of the quake with prayer services all over the city. You could barely drive a block without seeing worshipers spilling out of the churches that were still standing or a congregation gathered where churches once stood.

Hymns filled the air. Hundreds of thousands of people gathered on the boulevards that surrounded the collapsed presidential palace, an ornate white structure that now resembles a melted wedding cake — hundreds of thousands solemnly praying for those who had died and joyously thankful for having survived.

When the minister called for five minutes of silence, the only sounds heard were quiet, heart-wrenching sobs here and there in the crowd. It was a powerful moment.

With the rainy season approaching and one million homeless people living in squalid tent cities, Haitians need all the faith and spirit they can muster. Proud and resilient as they are, they cannot get back up on their feet by themselves. They desperately need the helping hand the world extended immediately after the quake. Haitians wish they had the luxury of referring to this tragedy in the past tense. They need the world to remember it is their present and their future.

Why We Serve and Will Continue to Serve...

2010-03-16T21:24:00.002-05:00

I am so saddened by the story in the post linked below. Although I am not a bit surprised, I really hoped for something better to come out of Haiti's government after the earthquake.

The Haitian people need help. They need our help. Their own government does not care. So we must care. We will care. And, we will continue to serve there. We will continue to serve the people of Haiti. We will continue to serve and pray others will serve, too.

http://barbieboots.blogspot.com/2010/03/injustice.html

Are You Listening?

2010-03-02T20:53:00.002-06:00

This brought tears to everyone in our house. There are no words to express the feelings we have for our dear loved ones in Haiti. They are all in our prayers each and every day!

Fundraiser

2010-02-07T22:48:00.007-06:00

Our peeps have decided to do a fundraiser for earthquake relief work in Haiti. If you are interested in purchasing one of these t-shirts, please let me know. The entire cost of each shirt will go directly to Three Angels' rebuilding during this devastating time in Haiti.

All shirts are $20 and checks can be made out to Three Angels Children's Relief. Once I have your order via email at colleen@threeangelshait.org, I will let you know how to proceed with payment and shipping.

Thank you for supporting earthquake relief efforts in Haiti through the mission/orphaange where our boys lived for over two years. As we continue to volunteer on the board of directors at Three Angels, please know every donation and supply given will go directly to the people of Haiti.

Update #1

2010-02-06T11:59:00.005-06:00

Most recently, I have had requests to update our family blog. It has been very busy here and finding the time has been near impossible. However, I am going to do my best to find the time. So many of of faithful readers, friends and family members deserve the updates. So much is happening around here and so many of you have supported us through it all. It is only right to keep you in the loop of the wild and exciting stuff going on in our lives right now.

So, here I go - update #1 for you...

...Our Haitian sons are home! Yes, that is right! Daniel and Jonathan arrived in the United States on Monday, January 18th. They, along with the other 24 orphans of Three Angels Children's Relief, were granted refugee parole visas following the devastating earthquake in Haiti. After picking the boys up in Ft. Pierce, Florida, we flew home to begin our life together as a forever family. It was a whirlwind of a few days full of excitement and craziness. We are settling into routines and getting to know one another. Life is so good and we are so, so blessed!

So much has happened in the last three weeks. There is so much to share. I am going to begin to work my way backwards sharing with you the events which took place to bring our boys into our home. I am going to do share with you what is going on in our lives today. There is a lot to share. For now, check out the Monfils peeps, united forever!

Our Defensive Tackle

2009-10-29T15:26:00.006-05:00

A year ago, I was not so thrilled Tim wanted to play tackle football. Bones can be broken, ankles sprained and heads crushed in a sport like that. However, I knew I had to let him "try it out." I knew I had to let him see if he liked the sport.

Tim needed to learn for himself how demanding this commitment would be. He needed to see for himself how much personal time of his would be taken up by playing on the team. Every night practice, Saturday or Sunday afternoon games and no time for friends meant something completely new to Tim. Our son loved time with his friends. He loved doing whatever he wanted when he wanted. Being a part of a rigid athletic schedule which demanded 100% attendance was not something Tim was familiar with - not at all.

So, we let our boy try it out. We signed him up for junior tackle football here in town. Even though Tim was the least beat mean, aggressive or tough, we let him give it a go...

The season ended with Tim getting awarded the "most improved player" of the season. He had a blast! From the moment football camp began in July until the end of the season mid-October, he loved every second of it! The drive, the will, the determination beamed through our boy as he learned the sport of football and became a starting lineman for the team.

We could not have been more proud of Tim's commitment to the football season, the team and the coaches. He stepped up and did what he needed to do to and enjoyed every second of it.

As fans of the sport, we had a great time, as well. The games were fun and we enjoyed cheering all the boys on throughout the season. Although I still cringe when Tim takes a hit, charges a tackle or twists a knee, it was so much fun to see our #80 play! We so look forward to next July and Hubs Football!

Leaf Jumpin'

2009-10-21T00:05:00.008-05:00

Living on a 3 acre wooded lot means LOTS OF LEAVES this time of year! The kids get so excited when they see the change of colors. They know it means there will be an abundance of fallen leaves to rake into piles. Nothing is more fun than jumpin' into one of those piles!

A Lil' Bit of Fall

2009-10-12T20:35:00.010-05:00

Tim and Meg seemed to be over visiting the apple orchard and pumpkin patch - for now anyway. So, Mike and I ventured out with Kate to grab some apple cider donuts and caramel apples last Sunday. It was a beautiful day with sunshine and a cool breeze.

At least our Katie is still "into" some of the fun fall traditions.

It's Over...

2009-10-09T20:11:00.006-05:00

Summer

Definitely

Over!

Well, maybe not for Tim...

It Hurts

2009-09-20T21:50:00.006-05:00

As I look through past posts, I notice our little Daniel is missing from many entries. As a mama, I feel bad. I feel as if I sort of neglect him. As if I favor the other children. It makes it look like maybe I love him less… None of this is true. As a matter of fact, Daniel has such a very special place in my heart ~ one which is difficult to share, but one that is so, so deep!

When I discovered my lack of writing about our sweet boy, I wanted to know what was keeping me from sharing about him, telling his story or asking my readers to pray for him, too? It was an easy answer to find but a harder one to share. It comes down to this ~ I miss Daniel more than I can possibly explain. More than I can possibly share. More than I truly want to admit. It hurts to miss him. It hurts to share it. And, it most certainly hurts to admit it.

Daniel is such special little boy. He comes with a very special story most of us will never truly understand or comprehend. For a little boy in Haiti, his story is pretty typical. This fact does not make it any less sad.

It was Daniel’s story that drew me to him. His story forced me to listen. When I listened, my heart cried. My heart cried and opened up. It opened up wide. As I held this little boy in my arms and heard his story, my heart broke. My heart broke for him. My heart broke because of his story. It was because of the story and the sweet little boy I knew I wanted to be his mama. I wanted to be his mama and help change his sad story into one full of happiness. I wanted to help write this sweet, little boy’s story. I wanted to add chapters to his story. I wanted to add good chapters – chapters of love, chapters of happiness, chapters of a forever family.

Daniel’s story is what makes me miss him. His story makes me miss him deeply! I am so ready to help write the next chapter of his life. I am ready to help make great changes and loving opportunities for such a special boy. I have been ready to do this for a very long time. I am ready.

It is not time for Daniel to come home to begin this new chapter. It will happen. It will happen when the time is right. I am truly okay with this. I am okay waiting. However, waiting does not make it hurt any less ~ especially if I think about it. If I think about all he could be doing, all I could be doing and all we could be doing together as a family - it hurts.

Daniel’s story will be a difficult one to turn around. However, I am ready to help turn it around. I am ready to hold him, rock him and hug him endlessly. I am ready to make him smile, make him laugh and make him happy. I am ready to tell him I love him every day; I am ready to make him feel loved every day. I want him to know he can be happy and feel this love every day. Wanting this hurts.

It hurts to think about all I can be giving Daniel if he were here. It hurts to think about all I want to give Daniel when he is here. It hurts thinking about his story and wanting to change how it plays out. It hurts thinking about when I learned about his story and what he went through. Since it hurts, I try not to think about it. I try to put it aside. I don’t think about it and I don’t worry. I try to remain positive. I think about all the wonderful opportunities and growing he is doing at the orphanage. I think about all the blessings he is receiving living at Angel House. I think about all the blessings we receive going through this adoption process.

I don’t write about Daniel often. I know why I do not write about him. I don’t write about him because I miss him. It is also okay to miss him. It is okay to want him home. I just wish it didn’t hurt so much.

Keep Praying!

2009-09-17T02:18:00.004-05:00

Our prayers are working ~ Kate's tumor is shrinking. Please, please keep praying for this sweet little girl!

http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/mcraekate

Dude!

2009-09-16T11:34:00.002-05:00

Happy 4th Birthday!

Disney World

2009-09-15T07:00:00.000-05:00

We spent a week in Disney World in June. It was the kids first trip there. They had been to Disneyland, but never down to Florida's park. We had more than a fabulous time for 9 days. Fun, laughs and chillin' with Mickey.

Timbo * Timberoni * Timster * TJ * Timeika * Timerthy

2009-09-14T17:16:00.011-05:00

He's a nut! I call him “Goober.” Cross between a geek and booger maybe? Not even sure where I got that nickname from, but it fits him perfectly.
There are so many times in a day when he cracks me up. His jokes. His one-liners. His sarcasm. I just love his sense of humor.
The past few months have been so much fun! I am truly enjoying the “kid” my son is turning into to right now. He laughs, he jokes, and he enjoys life. He is out to have a good time and wants to have fun. I have always thought Tim was a pretty cool kid. He has a very caring and loving side to him. He loves his family and admires his friends. He takes pride in what he does and wants to succeed. He wants to know what’s going on in the world and loves to learn. He has a very strong faith and cares deeply about God. All around, he is a terrific person.
Tim makes my heart swell. His admiration for life, his sensitivity towards others and his high standards brought upon by his belief in the Lord’s Word. I love him more each day. I couldn’t be more proud of him today!
I am having a blast being his mom. He makes it easy. He makes it fun. He is such a Goober!

Two Years Ago

2009-09-13T22:42:00.015-05:00

Two years ago we took a big leap of faith. We heard a calling from the Lord, and we answered it.

Mike and I committed to this calling. We committed to adopt Jonathan.

So much has happened in the past two years. Our lives have forever changed.

We pray each day for Jonathan's health. We pray for his orphanage and caregivers.

Thank you, Lord, for calling us. Thank you for hearing our prayers.

We praise You, God, for placing Jonathan in our lives. We praise You for forever changing us two years ago.

"So...Um..."

2009-09-11T14:39:00.011-05:00

"I'll trade ya this mango for a new Extract?!?!"

Seems Jonathan is need of a new Extract for his adoption file. In non-adoption terms, he needs a new birth certificate with the official seal. Prior to last year, Haiti did not require authenticated certificates. Now they do and Jonathan needs one. This could take quite a few months to achieve at this point.

So, here we wait. We wait for Jonathan's new birth certificate to be issued. We wait to move forward in the adoption process. We wait for approval in IBESR (Haitian Social Services.) We wait a little longer before we can bring the boys home. We wait and we pray.

Lord, as we try to be patient and wait for Your timing with the adoption, we pray asking You to please provide so the boys are taken care of and Jonathan remains well while they live at Angel House Orphanage. In Your son's name, Amen.

The Pure Light of God's Sweet Love

2009-07-31T11:18:00.012-05:00

I received this via email from a friend - thank you, Jody. It really touched my heart. It made me think of all the Haitian people I have come to know. It made me think about those who criticize my desire to serve in a third world country.

I am so blessed to have had the opportunities to meet and get to know many of God's people. I am even more blessed to be able to know His sweet love for each of them! I pray I can also express this pure love to others each and every day.

Breakfast at McDonald's

I am a mother of three and have recently completed my college degree. The last class I had to take was Sociology. The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I wish every human being had bee n graced with. Her last project of the term was called, 'Smile.' The class was asked to go out and smile at three people and document their reactions. I am a very friendly person and always smile at everyone and say hello anyway. So, I thought this would be a piece of cake, literally.

Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and I went out to McDonald's one crisp March morning. It was just our way of sharing special playtime with our son.

We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back away, and then even my husband did. I did not move an inch...an overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I turned to see why they had moved. As I turned around I smelled a horrible 'dirty body' smell, and there standing behind me were two poor homeless men. As I looked down at the short gentleman, close to me, he was 'smiling'. His beautiful sky blue eyes were full of God's Light as he searched for acceptance... He said, 'Good day' as he counted the few coins he had been clutching. The second man fumbled with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man was mentally challenged and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation. I held my tears as I stood there with them.

The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted. He said, 'Coffee is all Miss' because that was all they could afford. (If they wanted to sit in the restaurant and warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be warm).

Then I really felt it - the compulsion was so great I almost reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes. That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were set on me, judging my every action. I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray.

I then walked around the corner to the table that the men had chosen as a resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue-eyed gentleman's cold hand. He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and said, 'Thank you.'

I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, 'I did not do this for you... God is here working through me to give you hope.' I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son.
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When I sat down my husband smiled at me and said, 'That is why God gave you to me, Honey, to give me hope.' We held hands for a moment and at that time, we knew that only because of the Grace that we had been given were we able to give. We are not churchgoers, but we are believers. That day showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love.

I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with this story in hand. I turned in 'my project' and the instructor read it. Then she looked up at me and said, 'Can I share this?' I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class. She began to read and that is when I knew that we as human beings and being part of God share this need to heal people and to be healed. In my own way I had touched the people at McDonald's, my son, the instructor, and every soul that shared the classroom on the last night

I spent as a college student. I graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn:

UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE.

With a Heavy Heart...

2009-07-06T23:03:00.008-05:00

...I ask you to please pray for this little girl.

Kate

http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/mcraekate

Kate and her family have been on my mind since I first read their story and watched their video. http://www.youtube.com/v/ese3zYZ-NA4&hl=en&fs=1

I cannot even imagine what they are going through. I do not even try to understand the pain they feel. I will never be able to comprehend the anguish they are experiencing.

I am in awe of their faith in the Lord. I am humbled by their strength in Him. I am dedicated to praying for Kate.

At Bat With the Lord

2009-06-30T22:36:00.010-05:00

What a night. It was the first game in the little league world series. We were down by 3 and Tim was up to bat. My stomach turned for him as he approached home plate. Tim had been in a slump for some time. Batting practice was always a success, but during games he would just freeze up. He said he couldn't get the thought of losing for his team our of his head. The pressure was too much and Tim would either strike out or walk every time. The ball had not met the bat during a game - not once in a very long time.

During batting practice, Tim would hit pop flies, grounders and line drives. I would watch him bat, sometimes talking him through the pitch. I would make jokes, remind him to watch the ball or tell him to lighten up. It seemed to help.

So, tonight when it was Tim's turn at bat, I decided to leave my usual place sitting in the outfield. I walked up behind home plate and gave my boy some of those reminders. His first swing was a miss, so I told him to relax. Stepping out of the batters box, he turned and smiled - letting me know he knew I was there. After two balls and my cheers for watching the ball, there came the perfect pitch. Tim hit a line drive which bounced past the pitcher and over the second basemen. Finally, my boy was out of his batting slump. Finally, he hit the ball without worry.

After the game, I asked Tim what was so different about this time at bat. He was relaxed and confident up at the plate - I asked him why and expected him to say the cheers were a good distraction, no outs on the board made him relaxed or it was one of the last games so he gave it his all. However, that wasn't it. He told me he was ready to hit the ball because he sat in the dugout and prayed about it. He asked God to ease his worry and allow him to relax up at bat. He prayed that he would just go out there and hit the ball.

There I was thinking Tim was using some sort of strategic baseball technique or allowing the cheers from the stands to help him... When all along it was his faith in God and allowing himself to be led by the Lord. So, while Tim took the time to turn to the Lord in his time of need, I learned I should never sell my son short at bat, by the dugout or in his heart.

Could a mom be any more proud of her son coming out of his hitting slump?

~Great game tonight, Tim, and great batting!

Summer Camp '09

2009-06-16T22:49:00.007-05:00

My boy is at camp this week. We dropped him off Sunday afternoon. We will see him Friday evening when we meet up with him at "family campfire." I love attending this event. After 6 days of missing my first born, 6 evenings at the dinner table with his place left empty, and 6 nights of tucking in the girls and walking past his dark bedroom, I am thrilled to see Tim from across the campfire.

And, yes, I go right up to my boy and give him a big, fat hug and kiss! It's the only time I get to without Tim telling me I am embarrassing him to death.

A Ladies' Man

2009-05-29T16:54:00.002-05:00

Oh, I think we are in for it with our handsome Haitian son...

GUESS WHAT???!???!!???!!??

2009-05-04T13:37:00.008-05:00

One year after Mama Colleen brought down all the papers for our adoption, our file is finally in IBESR!!! That means our adoption is officially filed here in Haiti. We can now pray asking Social Services to approve our file.

It took a while for all the paperwork to be ready. Daniel had to be declared an orphan, have a birth certificate made and receive a Consent to Adopt filing from the mayor. All of that is now completed and Social Services will work on approving Mama Colleen and Papa Mike to adopt in Haiti.

Please pray with us everyday that our file will be approved and we can become part of the Monfils' family!

Love,

Daniel and Jonathan

2009-04-12T21:48:00.004-05:00

Someone is enjoying having his picture taken lately....Thanks for the pic, Megan!

HA - LOVE IT!!!

2009-03-18T23:26:00.001-05:00

2009-03-16T21:35:00.007-05:00

Would you please join us in prayer this week? We are hoping for some movement with the boys' adoption file in Haiti. If movement takes place, Jonathan is that much closer to being in the United States recieving the medical care he needs.

Stingray City - Grand Cayman '09

2009-02-21T13:23:00.006-06:00

We chartered a boat with our friends and headed out to Stingray City earlier in the week. This is the place in the bay where the stingray all migrate because tourists visit with chump, squid and other yummy treats. Although the stingrays are wild, they are gentle and swim around as if they enjoy the human company.
Tim was the only one of the kids who would get into the water. Megan and Kate preferred watching from the boat. I was able to get Meg to agree to dangle her legs off the side of the boat to at least feel the animals. That in itself was a huge step! Maybe next year, she'll even step onto the ladder.

Many of us spent the afternoon diving for conch shells, starfish and lobster. Only Mike was brave enough to eat the conch dip later on during the cruise, but we all enjoyed a taster lobster dinner that night.

2009-02-11T22:27:00.008-06:00

Will you please consider helping?
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There is a new easy way to raise money for Three Angels Children’s Relief. Just start using Yahoo! powered GoodSearch.com as your search engine and they'll donate a penny to Three Angels every time you do a search!

All you have to do is search the Internet just like you normally would — the site is powered by Yahoo!, so you'll get high-quality search results. Every search you make with GoodSearch.com will help the children of Angel House Orphanage, the students of Three Angels Christian Academy and the patients of Three Angels’ Halos Medical center. So many people from Haiti will benefit! The more people use GoodSearch, the more money will be directed towards Three Angels Children’s Relief.

The sky is the limit, so please spread the word!
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Here's the web site — http://www.goodsearch.com/. Please consider searching the Internet through this site while choosing the proceeds to go to Three Angels Children’s Relief. It could make such a huge difference in the lives of so many people in Haiti.
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Mesi anpil!
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Three Angels Children's Relief (Palm Coast, FL)

GoodSearch ID: 874920

Prayer Request

2009-01-27T17:22:00.007-06:00

We have some very special friends who are in the midst of adopting from Haiti. Tomorrow is a BIG day in their adoption journey. Would you please take the time and pray for them? Please pray that both Sarah and Isaiah Daniel's files will be approved & released from IBESR this week.

These families have been waiting a very long time for approval from Haitian Social Services. I have a very peaceful feeling about tomorrow's meeting and so hope good news is sent their way, as well!

Thank you for your prayers! I know our friends appreciate them!!!

A Filler Post

2009-01-26T21:47:00.006-06:00

Not too much is happening here lately. Well, nothing too exciting to post about anyway. Figured I would answer these questions since I was tagged by a dear friend. :) Enjoy!

Totally Random...

You just got a mall gift certificate. Where do you head first? Gap

You're on amazon.com. What's in your basket? books, books and more books

You go to the video rental store. What are you looking for? the return counter to pay for our never-ending late fees. :-o

Where's the marker in your Bible? JOB 26 – I am reading the entire Bible chronologically this year, so I am at the beginning. Thanks for the awesome idea, Shannon!

What are you hiding from your family? Valentine’s Day gifts…

What's your game? BASKETBALL – Isn’t that everyone’s game?

What's the last movie you saw at the theater? Hotel for Dogs

You're next up at Starbucks. What do you order? A brownie (since I do not like coffee), then I head to Mac Donald’s for a large coke. A brownie and a coke – the breakfast of champions!

What's in your CD player? Halos Medical Mission CD – I love it! Thanks for a great selection of Christian tunes, Lynda!

You're packing. Where are you going? Although most would guess Haiti, this time we are headed to Grand Cayman for our annual dive trip. (No worries though, I’ll be going back to Haiti soon.)

What's your biggest goal for this year? helping Mike as he chooses a direction for his practice…

What's your biggest event this year? “LIFE” is a big event – so I am going to live it to its fullest by the Grace of God!

What should you be doing instead of this? Paying bills…YUCK!

Who do you think should fill this out on their blog? TAG – you’re it

Just a Little Update....

2009-01-20T19:34:00.012-06:00

I have not posted much about our adoption process most recently. We are still in the same holding pattern...

The orphanage DID receive Daniel's birth certificate in December; which is WONDERFUL news! So, now we are waiting for the Mayor's "consent to adopt" for our little guy. Once we have that, the boys' file will enter IBESR - Haitian Social Services.
Waiting for the consent to adopt could be about 5-6 months at this point. Right now, we are praying the Mayor will take Jonathan's illness into consideration and process the paperwork a little bit faster. It is Haiti; however, so we just never know what will happen.

We are also continuing to pursue the medical visa for Jonathan. We have our congressman involved and very willing to assist us to get an approval. We all agree that Jonathan really does need more extensive medical care than offered in Haiti, so we are going to give it another shot. We are so thankful our little guy is healthy right now and pray he stays that way while he lives in Haiti. So, while we wait, we pray. We pray our adoption process continues as planned. We pray Jonathan's NF stays in check and Daniel continues to thrive at Three Angels. We pray all the children at the orphanage, Three Angels and Haiti are protected by the Lord. We pray the US Immigration has a caring heart for the sick children around the world. We pray the Lord's will is done!

His Calling: PART ONE

2009-01-10T21:42:00.011-06:00

Over the past year, Haiti has become an important part of our family’s life. Haiti, the poorest third-world country in our hemisphere, is a land full of love and happiness because of God’s glory. Haiti, a country of more than 8 million people with smiling faces and open arms, is a place where its people need to know Jesus Christ. Haiti, a country consumed with poverty, is a place full of miracles and blessings to be shared through Christ’s story. Haiti, a country with a culture so rich in music and art, is a place God has sent the Monfils’ family to share His love and teach His Word.

Prior to our first trip to Haiti, I was anxious to travel to a third-world country. I was nervous of the fact I knew absolutely nothing about medicine and I was about to participate in a medical mission. I was worried about the communication barrier I’d experience with the people of Haiti. I feared the reaction Jonathan, the child we chose to adopt, would have as we were going to meet him for the very first time. I was sad to leave my three children at home for an entire week. I was excited to take on this new adventure in my life; and I was hopeful that this was what God wanted me to do. So many people mention the presence of God’s spirit in Haiti. I recall being told before the mission trip, “God is everywhere,” and “God does exist in Haiti.” Although I knew in my heart the Lord did want me to do mission work; I hadn’t felt it like others said I would. Certainly I had heard about serving God and doing missionary work, and I knew we were supposed to help others and spread His word. So, when Mike and I decided to go on our first mission trip, I knew it was what we were supposed to do. Once I arrived in Haiti, I hoped to be able to feel God’s assurance that it was what I was supposed to do.

As our plane approached the island of Hispaniola, I saw a land of green and a sea of blue. Looking closer, I noticed the brown mudslides streaming down the mountainside. We were traveling to Haiti one week after Tropical Storm Noel hit and flooded a majority of the country. Here I was flying over Haiti, seeing the actual evidence of the destruction and devastation I read about back home. What was moments ago in my mind a lush, tropical island was now the third-world country I was going to be visiting for the 8 days. I felt anxious and concerned, and I prayed asking for God’s reassurance.

As I stepped off the plane, I felt I belonged in this country. Thanking God for this feeling of peace, I proceeded through the airport and out on the street of Port au Prince, completely at ease. I was able to soak in the sites around me, see the people surrounding us and listen to the sounds in the air. Haiti was a beautiful place and I knew I was there for a reason ~ I could feel it! The Lord was allowing me to feel this experience and feel His presence.Each time I visit Haiti, I know God is around me. It is so uplifting to feel God’s love and strength while carrying out His work. I wish to return to Haiti to serve Him and help His people time and time again. It is quite an amazing experience knowing God is right there with you, guiding you, and leading you through His magnificent journey. It is a blessing one can only know first hand.

The love and compassion we have for the people of Haiti have made such powerful impressions on our lives. We long to visit the country to provide for His people and spread His word ~ this is something that so desperately needs to be done in Haiti. Many people question why we choose to work in Haiti and why we are choosing to adopt two Haitian boys. We explain how the Lord led us to this place, we agreed to follow and it is now deeply embedded it into our hearts. As long as God allows, we will continue to serve the people of Haiti. We know in our hearts it is what He has called us to do.

Chosing Joy!

2008-12-30T00:37:00.000-06:00

***This is for Cheese, Kristina and anyone else needing a little devotional.

“Celebrate God all day, every day. I mean, revel in him!” Philippians 4:4

The author, Paul, is serious about joy, telling us twice in this passage to rejoice! The word “rejoice” means “to practice joy, to take delight in and be glad”. Many times, life makes it impossible to be happy but we need to understand that happiness is not what Paul is calling us to. Happiness is a cheap imitation of true joy and totally dependent on the circumstances of life. Joy, however, is a deeply rooted confidence that God is in control no matter what the circumstances of life may be. Joy is a choice.

Paul’s situation, while writing this letter, could make you wonder why he was even writing about joy, of all things. He was in prison under Roman house arrest, awaiting trial and almost certain execution because of his faith in Jesus Christ. Yet, he tells us to rejoice! Don’t miss this! What Paul is really telling us is a life-changing truth! Our inner attitudes do not have to reflect our outward circumstances. In other words, we cannot always find joy in our circumstances but we can always find joy in the Lord of the circumstances.

You have probably discovered that there is absolutely no way in this world to escape pain, but we can avoid joy. The pursuit of joy is a matter of choice. Our first and most important choice is to come to the only source of true joy - Jesus Christ. We must also choose to rejoice in the midst of every circumstance - good or bad – and keep our focus on God, gladly accepting His plan for our lives. We must choose a joyful perspective. A little boy asked his friend. “Wouldn’t you hate to wear glasses all the time?” "No-o-o," the other boy answered slowly, “not if I had the kind grandma wears. She sees how to fix a lot of things. She sees lots of nice things to do on rainy days and she always sees what you meant to do even if you mess things up! I asked her one day how she could see that way all the time and she said, ‘It is the way I choose to look at things.’ So it must be her glasses." When we choose joy, we are choosing against worry!

by: Mary Southerland
'Girlfriends in God'

Father, when worry gets the best of me, please, help me to see life as You see it and to choose Your perspective instead of my own. Lead me into Your peace as I learn to trust You wholly. In Your son's name, Amen.

2008-12-28T21:30:00.010-06:00

It’s been a while since my last post - longer than I anticipated. The holiday season has kept us all busy. My absence certainly is not due to the lack of things to share with all of you. With three kids, lots going on and our recent family excursions, there is always plenty to share. I have always shared through this blog. I enjoy writing. Lately, however, it’s been hard to write. It’s been difficult to share.

I try very hard to look at life through a glass that is half-full. I always try to do this. I am an optimist and look at things in a positive way – almost always! I work very hard at counting my blessings and being thankful for the new day ahead. There is always something to smile about and something to celebrate. There is always something to be thankful for – always!

Each day, I continue to count my blessings and thank the Lord for all I have in my life. However, recently, I have wanted to --- complain. I have wanted to whine a little bit. It is just so out of character and something I am not comfortable doing. I catch myself pointing out what’s bothering me and turning it into something positive. This is good, I guess, but today it is just not working for me...

So, here on my family blog, where I share the good I am also going to share the not so good. It is here I am going to be me – honest….

Fifteen months ago, Mike and I committed to adopting Jonathan. Three months after, we committed to the adoption of Daniel. At that time, we began working on our paperwork for an international adoption. And, although the paperwork trail had some bumps in the road, we prepared our dossier in a timely manner. We did not stress about the mounds of work, piles of papers and endless running around. We took it in stride checking off one item at a time on the to-do list. Our government approval came, and soon after our dossier was ready to send down to Haiti. We were finished with our side of the paperwork, handed it all over in Haiti and attended our DHS appointment. The wheels were in motion. The Haitian side of the adoption had begun!

This all happened well over seven months ago. Seven months ago, we prayed that the boys’ paperwork would be ready. Seven months ago we anxiously waited for the green light for our file to enter IBESR – the first step in the Haitian adoption process. Well, here we are seven months later. Still waiting. Still waiting for Daniel’s paperwork to be processed. Still waiting for that green light.

Most days, I get through the wait without a hitch. I am so thankful Daniel and Jonathan live in such a wonderful place getting such terrific care. I am grateful for this transition as they become healthier and stronger and prepare to come home. I feel so very blessed to be able to visit the boys so often. I am truly lucky to be developing such a close bond to them as we wait.

There are days, however, I want to cry. I want to question why there is such a long process to declare a little boy, who was found abandoned on the streets of Port au Prince, an orphan. There are certainly days when I want to wonder what in the world is going on with the need for paper after paper, form after form and letter after letter to officially call him adandoned. I want to understand what the Lord is trying to teach me through this wait. There are days when I struggle with being positive and understanding. There are days when I wish our file would just enter IBESR. Today is one of those days.

I. Just. Wish. Our. File. Would. Enter. IBESR.

I know I cannot rush this process. I know I cannot wish this process along. I know it is all happening for a reason – a reason only the Lord knows. Usually, I am okay with this. Usually, I am okay with putting all of this into God’s hands and letting Him take care of it all. But, today, I am struggling. Today I just wish we had some sort of place in this adoption process. Somewhere other than waiting… Today I just wish we did not have to wait anymore. Today I just wish I could give it all back to the Lord.

Silly Faces!

2008-12-18T19:04:00.006-06:00

Happy Holidays, Peeps!

2008-12-12T20:41:00.001-06:00

Send your own ElfYourself eCards

2008-11-22T01:04:00.012-06:00

Ever been so busy that you feel disconnected from the rest of your world? That is the kind of week I had. I am so glad it's the weekend and I can take the time to catch up.

I miss my peeps!

What's Up?

2008-11-17T20:07:00.003-06:00

I just couldn't stay away. I miss writing. I miss being connected to all of my blog friends. I miss blogland.

Stay tuned for lots of catching up in the days ahead.

It's good to be back!

See You Soon...

2008-10-30T22:44:00.004-05:00

...We are taking a break from blogging. As the busy holiday season approaches, we are going to concentrate on spending quality time with one another. Please know we continue to think of each and every faithful reader and continue to keep each of you in our prayers.

Please know we are happy to keep in touch with each of you via email, snail mail, phone calls and personal visits. It's time for us to slow down and enjoy our friends and family on a more personal level outside of blogland.

Blessings to each of you!

Mike and Colleen

Hoping.... Wishing.... Praying....

2008-10-20T21:49:00.009-05:00

...for our little boy!

Sunshine and Family Fun!

2008-10-18T23:04:00.012-05:00

B.B.L. - Promise!

2008-10-16T18:56:00.005-05:00

Sorry I haven't been around lately. We have been on a much-needed family reprieve the past week. As soon as we are home, I will be back to posting...

Sunset over the Golden Gate Bridge - October 15, 2008

2008-10-10T14:21:00.004-05:00

by Max Lucado

As long as Jesus is one of many options, He is no option. As long as you can carry your burdens alone, you don't need a burden bearer. As long as your situation brings you no grief, you will receive no comfort. And as long as you can take Him or leave Him, you might as well leave Him, because He won't be taken half-heartedly.

But when you mourn, when you get to the point of sorrow for your sins, when you admit that you have no other option but to cast all your cares on Him, and when there is truly no other name that you can call, then cast all your cares on Him, for He is waiting in the midst of the storm.

For Sandy...

2008-10-06T15:28:00.018-05:00

...and everyone else!

Hope it was worth the wait... Enjoy!

Travels of Laughter

2008-10-05T23:25:00.004-05:00

Where do I begin? It is always so hard to decide what to write about after a trip to Haiti. So many things happened, so many experiences took place. So much spins through my mind as I try to adjust back into life in the U.S. without my Haitian sons.

I will say this was one of the most “entertaining” trips I have taken in a long time. A very long time. Anywhere. This particular group of travelers, which consisted of adoptive families, were so much fun! We had so many laughs and good times. We enjoyed each other’s company. And many tears were shared. It brought the group closer together. All of these experiences enabled each of us to go home with 10 new friends.

As I mentioned, we shared many laughs. So many! Tons! As a matter of fact, I am not sure when I laughed so much or so hard? It was so good for my spirit to be able to share such happiness with my team. We all have a special place in our hearts for Haiti and Three Angels. Happy, silly and crazy times are included! Whether we giggled about stories shared, chuckled about goofy things said, or joked about something serious, we turned many things into laughter. We enjoyed each other and the situation we made from any circumstance.

God receives all the credit for forming this incredible team. Right down to the last few days when one parent was blessed with the last-minute opportunity to travel to see her children. If the Lord hadn’t sent her, I don’t know if the team would have been the same. For this, I am truly grateful! There were also some first-time travelers with us, and what a blessing it was to have them with our group. It was so wonderful to be able to experience all their Haiti firsts with them – especially getting to meet their children, siblings and grandchildren for the very first time. What sweet memories. They brought us even closer.

Each one of us brought a special element to the group. I am so thankful they did. It is because of each of them, I will always remember this trip. Thank you, Stephanie, Abbie, Jim, Tim, Jason, Cathey, Kaleb, Kristina, Todd and Megan. I had a blessed time last week. Thank you for being you. Thank you for sharing Haiti with us all. And, thank you, God, for blessing us with a glorious week!

Request: Per Kristina

2008-10-04T18:37:00.014-05:00

Here ya go, Kristina, the "Up Date" you were asking about.

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Hahahahaha!

See , I am still full of laughs even after being away from ya'll for a few days.

Actually, life has been so busy here since I arrived home. I promise to do some posting in the very near future. Lots to say, just so little time.

Thanks for checkin' in with us!

Please Pray With Us

2008-09-21T12:45:00.005-05:00

I am leaving for Haiti this Thursday morning to lead a team of adoptive parents and their families down to Angel House Orphanage for a fun visit with their children. I am really excited to be going with an extraordinary group of people who share my love for the country and people.

Originally, we were hoping to have a medical visa appointment for Jonathan while I was there; however, it is Haiti and one never knows what is going to happen. With the flooding, destruction and devastation from the hurricanes, we are not sure all is ready to go with the paperwork down there?

We know God can move mountains and allow miracles to happen. And, we know we could pray for this to happen so Jonathan can come home for medical care. However, we are standing firm on waiting for God's will to be done with our son. If the Lord sees it needed that Jonathan come home now, He will provide Three Angels with the paperwork and passport needed for the appointment this coming week. If the Lord sees it necessary for Jonathan to come to the United States for medical care, He will pave the path and a visa will be issued.

Whatever the outcome, we know it is what is best for Jonathan right now. God will protect and provide for our little boy as He has in the past. We have faith He will take care of Jonathan as He continues to do. Would you please pray with us this week and ask God to allow His will to be done for Jonathan?

Thank you,
Colleen and Mike

souri souple!

2008-09-18T21:24:00.003-05:00

I have a new camera.

Last year at this time, my pocket-size digital camera broke. I decided not to replace it, but instead purchased a really cool, but larger, camera. I do LOVE the other camera I now have, but really missed the portability of the other. So, when I received a 25% off certificate and a $40 off coupon for Best Buy recently, I decided to buy a replacement.

I know you are probably wondering why in the world would I feel the need to announce this... Well, I am just so excited! I am going to take this camera with me to Haiti. And, because it is so small and easy to use, I will have it with me all the time. And, because I will have it with me all the time, I am going to be taking TONS of pictures. And, because I am going to be taking tons of pictures, you can be certain I will capture all the kids at the O on film! And, because I will capture all the kids, I will have SOOOOO many pics to send all the adoptive families.

So, to make a long story short.... Be on the lookout for lots of pictures of your kiddos, TA's families. I have the battery all charged up and a HUGE memory card loaded. I promise to get lots of shots of your sweeties!

Some Call It Nesting...

2008-09-16T16:43:00.009-05:00

...I call it "Enough Is Enough!"

I have been reading a book called Living Simply by Joanne Heim. The title speaks for itself. I am trying more and more to simplify my life in all ways. From my busy schedule to our over-crowded home, I am trying to de-clutter my life.

Each time I visit Haiti, I realize more and more that we just do not need all this "stuff" in our lives to be content. I see all the Haitians living with such little yet being able to lead fulfilling lives. Of course, they have little choice; however, I have noticed that they can get by with what they have and live full lives. To me, this means my family most certainly could get by with A LOT LESS and be happy.

When Mike and I first married and started a family, we had nothing. We didn't own a big television, a computer or closets full of nice clothes. We had what we needed to get by and lived happily with one another. Ultimately, that is all we needed: one another! We were content and satisfied with our lives and possessions and felt very blessed with all we did have. What happened...?

So this afternoon, the girls and I were in their rooms "nesting..." I had a garbage bag, a box labeled "to keep" and a box labeled "donate." It has taken lots of time to sort through everything, but the girls are understanding what they need and what they want. I am happy to say the "donate" box is overflowing and the garbage bag is full!

I had to step out and take a break for a bit. I thought posting might help me chill out and regroup. I cannot believe how my "stuff" our children have. It is way too much stuff!!!

Although we have a long way to go before we can live what I think is simple life, we are off to a start. I just wish it wasn't so stressful getting there....

HAPPY 3rd BIRTHDAY, JONATHAN!!!

2008-09-15T00:00:00.003-05:00

Wow! You are getting so big, Buddy! Have a wonderful birthday! Mama will be there in 10 days to celebrate with you.

Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for blessing us with our beautiful three year old. We praise You, Lord, for wrapping your loving arms around Jonathan helping him to grow healthy and stronger each day. Please continue to watch over our son, protecting him and providing for him whatever he needs to thrive. If it is your will, Lord, we pray you continue to bless Jonathan with good health as we learn more about his disease and what lies ahead for him. We are so blessed with the nannies, care takers and loving people you have sent to Three Angels to take care of our little boy. For this, we thank You! We pray that Jonathan has a happy day today and enjoys his time playing with his friends and being with his nannies. In Your son's name, Amen.

One Year Ago...

2008-09-13T14:29:00.005-05:00

One year ago, we committed to adopting Jonathan. One year ago, our lives were forever changed. Thank you, Lord, for bringing this precious boy into our family! Thank you, Lord, for blessing each of us in ways we could never have imagined!!!

Finally! Some GOOD News!

2008-09-11T07:53:00.006-05:00

Although we are still waiting on birth certificates and medical visas, I have some wonderful news for our TA's family and many of my blog friends.

Kaitlyn and Michael are engaged! YEAH!

They are planning a November wedding and could not be happier! We are so excited for them and want to wish them all the best in their new life together.

Congratulations, Kaitlyn and Michael!

(They have actually been engaged since the day Kaitlyn arrived home from 4 months serving at Three Angels in Haiti. I couldn't wait to tell everyone, but had to wait until Karen announced it officially on her blog. Thanks, Karen, cuz it was killin' me not to be able to tell everyone! It's difficult to keep happy secrets!)

Closer Look!

2008-09-08T20:28:00.006-05:00

This is a photo taken after the THREE hurricanes fiercely flew over the island of Haiti over the last few weeks.

Take a closer look...

Please pray for the people of Haiti.

Pwovèb 3:5-6

2008-09-04T22:22:00.002-05:00

Mete tout konfyans ou nan Seyè a. Pa gade sou sa ou konnen.

Toujou chonje Seyè a nan tou sa w'ap fè. Li menm, l'a moutre ou chemen pou ou pran.

I Am Blessed!

2008-09-01T22:10:00.001-05:00

2008-08-29T13:44:00.006-05:00

You were in serious trouble, but you prayed to the LORD, and he rescued you.
He brought you out of the deepest darkness and broke your chains.

Psalm 107:13-14

Keep praying, my friends. Keep praying. I have faith the Lord will bring you out from the darkness and rescue each of you! Dossiers will move and children will come home. Just keep praying.

Much love,

Colleen

2008-08-23T17:26:00.002-05:00

'Nuf said....

Ready, Set, Go!!!!!

2008-08-20T17:39:00.007-05:00

I never had the chance to post about our family vacation to Wisconsin Dells. I left for Haiti the day after we returned, so time was tight...

We had a fabulous time! Usually, I am not one to look forward to a trip to the Dells. The crowds, lines and craziness is not something I enjoy. It is a great place; however, to take the family for a quick get-away within driving distance from our home.

This year was different, though. We rented a condo at the Wildness Resort and it was great! We had a kitchen, family room and separate bedrooms for everyone. It was wonderful to have a place to cook, chill and spread out ~ so much better than the basic hotel room. When we were sick of the crowds, hungry for something other than concession food or wanted to chill, we would just head back to the condo.

We had a great time together as a family, as well. The kids are getting old enough to really enjoy all the water parks and other attractions. They can *go, go, go* for a long time and pretty much stay entertained with things around. We are finding as the children get older, we really enjoy the scene so much more, too. They are really so much fun to just "hang" with. :)

Here is a video of the kids racing on a toboggan water slide. We met up with some friends from our town who also have children the same age. It was great for all of them to enjoy the times together. Plus, I had a girlfriend to chill with on the lazy river and in front of our cabana.

Totally Blessed and Totally Unexpected

2008-08-17T12:42:00.002-05:00

****This is a long entry containing A LOT!!! Thanks for taking the time to read it!

My trip to Haiti again surpassed my hopes and plans for Three Angels. I traveled with the most incredible group people; I now call friends, who share a true love for mission work, God and his people of Haiti. We saw well over 400 patients in the Halos medical clinic in 3 days, visited Mother Teresa’s Orphanage, assisted with the medical care of wound patients at a nearby hospital, and found plenty of time to play with the orphans ~ and we even experienced Tropical Storm Fay on our last day. This was by far the best and most blessed trip I have been on since beginning my work for Three Angels.

The past week was also one of the most emotional trips I have taken to Three Angels. So much was going on with the clinic and there was so much to do. We were blessed with wonderful doctors, nurses, technicians and others who devoted 8 days to doing all they could to help make a difference in the lives of the people of Haiti. Prayers were said as we asked the Lord for blessings for the patients. Stories were shared as medical concerns were discussed. Much needed help was given to so many people who would otherwise never receive any sort of medical care. Smiles were shared as children spent time coloring and doing crafts while they waited for the doctors. Each and every step in the process of a medical appointment was emotional, extraordinary and so very memorable.

Halos has truly been blessed by the medical professionals willing to donate their personal time to the mission. So many nurses, techs and doctors take time away from their families and jobs to come down and help in the clinic. This week was no exception. The volunteers were dedicated; excited and willing to do whatever it took to make a difference while sending the patients on their way full of hope. From Haitians living on the streets as well as Three Angels families to the orphans of Angel House, each and every one of them received a thorough exam and was given the best medical care Halos could possibly offer. It was such a blessing for them and for the volunteers, as well.

One doctor in particular has given so much of his time to the orphans at Angel House. Dr. Brian Mauch, a pediatrician from Midland, Michigan has come down to Haiti numerous times to examine the orphans and give medical care to so many Haitian children. He is a gentle man with a huge heart for the people of Haiti. I am honored to know him and forever grateful for his willingness to be a part of the organization. The adoptive families are so fortunate to have such a dedicated and loving professional taking care of their children.

I had the opportunity and privilege to sit in on many of Dr. Brain’s exams of the children. Seeing him thoroughly exam children using his incredible knowledge and expressing his true love for each one of them was so heart warming. His tender approach of talking to the children while carefully observing each developmental and medical concern is so sincere. He takes the time to understand each child’s needs and takes significant time to make a plan of care for each one. It brought back many memories of my children’s visits to the doctor when they were younger. The time, love and dedication our pediatrician took with my children was the same Dr. Brain gave to each and every child of Angel House.

Mike and I have been blessed with extremely healthy children, so the ‘doctor’s visit’ I experienced with Jonathan on Monday was like no other. After a thorough exam and coincidentally seeing Jonathan’s mother in the clinic as well that day, Dr. Brian had concerns. He did some research after clinic hours and sat me down to discuss his medical suspicions. Brian was able to diagnose Jonathan with a hereditary disease called Neurofibromatosis, a disease that affects the neurological system as well as many other systems of the body. Patients with this disease have the potential for many defects, disorders and illnesses through life. High risks for leukemia, neurological and renal cancers, malignant skin, brain and nerve tumors, physical, language and metal disabilities are just a few of the problems people with this disease encounter. Most of these patients also suffer from mental and physical delays, sight and hearing problems and possible debilitation further down the road. There is also the possibility Jonathan has a mild case of the disease and will lead a normal and happy life. Needless to say, Jonathan’s check-up turned into a consultation I never expected.

After discussing all the problems Jonathan could possibly face, my first thought was, “I am so grateful the Lord has blessed our little boy with a doctor for a papa!” God has big plans for our son and I know there is a reason he is a part of our family. I have great peace about what may be ahead for our little boy and feel very confident Mike and I have been blessed with the tools to take any obstacles head on. God has given us strength to face anything that may lie ahead for Jonathan, as well as all of our children.

It was highly recommended to us to begin intervention for Jonathan’s illness as soon as possible. The sooner he can receive therapies for his delays the better chance he has at overcoming larger obstacles ahead. It is also important for him to begin medical care by specialists who are able to monitor the progression of his disease. A team of doctors will need to be consulted for the rest of his life. Genetic, neurology, cardiology, and so many others, will be routine doctor visits for our little boy; and Brain believes this care needs to begin now.

With this said, we have decided it is in the best interest of Jonathan’s health to apply for a medical visa. His quality of life can very greatly upon the medical intervention he receives. We have seen our little boy thrive at Angel House over the last year and pray it continues. Under the circumstances of limited resources in Haiti, it would be best to bring Jonathan to the U.S. to begin therapies, neurological evaluations and other treatments as soon as possible.

The next month or two will be a whirlwind for us. We have many specialists to consult with, letters to request and paperwork to prepare for the visa application process. It is important that we have as much information for the Embassy to receive approval. The sooner we can get our son home the better chance he has at being cared for properly by the doctors. The sooner diagnoses are made means treatments can begin. The sooner treatments begin the better chance Jonathan will have at being healthy, cancer free and neurologically intact.

Although the Lord is the only one who knows just what Jonathan will endure with his disease, I have faith He will protect our little boy and give Mike and I whatever is needed to help our son. God already blessed us with a beautiful little boy to love. He provided Halos with an incredible pediatrician with great knowledge and love. God sent Jonathan’s mother to the clinic, and her visit allowed for a confirmation of Jonathan’s diagnosis. Mike and I have been given strength and perseverance to fight Jonathan's disease and overcome whatever lies ahead. With His faithfulness, we are all blessed!

Leavin' On a Jet Plane....

2008-08-08T17:20:00.005-05:00

...Go ahead! Finish the song....

I'll be back to the post when I return from Haiti. Blessings to all of you!

Institution Mixte Chretienne de Petion-Ville ~ Three Angels’ Christian Academy

2008-08-05T18:30:00.015-05:00

~~~~~ I posted this a while back. With the new school year fast-approaching, I wanted to try to reach out to any of my new, and old, readers. Please consider helping the children of Haiti!

The need for quality schools in Haiti is endless as over half of the adult population is illiterate. It is an amazing blessing to see Three Angels strive to decrease this statistic in Haiti. Along with the orphanage and medical clinic is the Three Angels’ Christian Academy; a one-room school for over 355 Haitian children grades preschool through high school. The school provides uniforms, textbooks and instruction for all the students. In addition, the children also receive a meal of bread and peanut butter, known as “mamba,” and fresh water each day they attend. For many of these Haitian children it is their only meal of the day.
Watching the school children enter the gates of Three Angels during my trips to Haiti is such a delight. The smiles on their faces and laughter in their voices brings such joy to me. So many of them come up to many of the missionaries to greet them with a sweet smile, loving “Bonjour,” a giant hug and soft kiss on the cheek. They share their love and they don’t even know us! However, they know because of missionary groups, they are able to go to school and even see a doctor if need be. They are so thankful for the help and outwardly display their gratitude. These children bring such happiness to me while I am in Haiti. It is because of these children, I long to return to Haiti time and time again. They are big reason why I truly understand the importance of helping Three Angels and supporting the organization any way I can!Currently, Three Angels is looking for sponsorships for each student attending IMCP/TACA. There is an endless budget for the needs of the children, faculty and school. Without the help of donations, the school could not and would not exist. A monthly support of $27 is all that is needed to directly benefit the life of a student. These continual donations give the children the opportunity for not only a quality education, but also a meal and clean drinking water each day. Most of the children currently attending TACA would not have the opportunity to attend a school without the Academy and sponsorship help. It is quite disheartening, but so very true!
Three Angels’ Christian Academy would not exist without the help of monthly sponsors. The fact that there are 340+ children in need of help to pay their monthly tuition is troubling to me. These children need our help!!! So, if any of you, my faithful blog readers, have any ideas how to pursue the help needed, please let me know! And, if YOU have found it in your heart to personally sponsor a student at the Academy for less than $1 a day, you can visit www.threeangelshaiti.org/sponsorship.htm to set up an account to begin making your monthly contribution.

This is such a worthy cause and these children need our help! I pray that my work will be successful and Three Angels Christian Academy will continue to be a success for all of the Haitian children and families!

"sis jounen"

2008-08-03T21:11:00.020-05:00

In "six days" I will be back in Haiti. I am really looking forward to this particular trip for so many reasons...

I so loved spending a week with my entire family together in June. We had so much fun playing, made so many memories together, and spent lots of time bonding. This trip, however, I am travelling alone to work with the medical team. I am so excited to help out in the clinic where ever needed.

I am also going to be traveling with a dear friend of mine from Ohio. She and I have the same love for Haiti. It is going to be wonderful to see her again and experience our heart-felt passion together, serving our Lord and His people in Haiti.

Junior will be heading back to Haiti with the team, as well. My family had a wonderful time getting to know him last month. I am really looking forward to seeing him again and seeing first-hand how he is feeling and doing after a three-month stay in the USA.

And, certainly, the reason I am most excited about this particular trip is this....

HONK!

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Tim and Megan were a part of the local theatre group's summer production of "Honk!" It was a comedy based on the story of The Ugly Duckling. Rehearsals began back in May and carried on all the way through last week. They had a blast learning about putting on a play and enjoyed getting to know many people in the cast and crew.

Mike, Kate and I attended all six shows and really enjoyed being in the audience of the week and an half. Not only was it fun to see Tim and Meg perform, but it was interesting being a part of a production for the first time ever. Not sure what the future holds for our two actors? They had a great time and will always remember their summer working with Ugly, Papa Bullfrog and the School of Fish....

Happy 9th Birthday, Megan!!!!!

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What a Difference a Day ~ or a YEAR ~ Makes!

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Jonathan after his arrival in July '07

Jonathan has been at the orpahage for a year now. He arrived during medical clinic last July. He was so sick, so weak and so sad. Malnutirtion was getting the best of his little body. If Three Angels had not taken him in, most certainly he would have died.

The Lord knew just what Jonathan needed that day. With the love and care Joanthan has recieved over the last 12 months at the orphanage, he is a healthy growing toddler. Thank you, God!

Jonathan - One Year Later....

Day Two

2008-07-24T10:54:00.008-05:00

Introductions were crazy ~ to say the least. As everyone who has walked into Angel House after first arriving with a mission team knows, the kids get so excited. We did enter during snack time and the children were a bit quieter than usual, but it was still crazy!

My first thought as we entered the orphanage was *MY WORD! OUR KIDS ARE HUGE!* I turned to Mike and repeated my thought. “Our kids look so huge!” And, of course Mike has a worldly, highly intelligent and most thoughtful response, “What do ya expect?” The Angel House children seemed so teeny tiny next to my American, beef-eating brood! I figured as much before we arrived; it was just surprising to see first-hand.

Daniel came up to us right away. He remembered me and asked for “chocolate” when he saw me. In May, I brought down protein drinks and protein bars for him ~ “chocolate” as he called it. J Funny how they remember the food. Ha! Our kids were a bit shy and standoffish at first. They understood Daniel was not aware that we were adopting him. They were afraid they would spill the beans or something. Megan broke the ice, however, by immediately picking him up. She has longed to carry around a younger sibling and her wish had been fulfilled. After that, it seemed as if my kids threw off their shoes, made themselves at home and fit right in. It was a wonderful feeling for my heart and made me so at ease about the week-long visit that was underway.
…Last year, we told the kids we were considering adopting a little boy from Haiti and we wanted to know how the girls felt about having another brother. Megan’s only response was, “As long as he is small enough so I can carry him around, I am fine with a brother.” She really had no preference to a boy or a girl, how old they were or what their name would be. All she wanted to be able to do was hold her sibling and carry them around all over the place….

As we took some time saying hello to Daniel, many of the other children came over to get a hug. Tim and Kate loved all the attention from the get-go! Soon, introductions we underway and many of the boys were waiting to play with Tim. Reece and Jonas were right there ready for some action and Tim could not wait to get to know them. He had heard many stories, read several blog entries about them and was so thrilled to have finally met them. He introduced himself to Reece as “Chicago Tim” and it was the start to a wonderful friendship.
….When I first met Reece in November, he was going up to each team member asking where they live. More specifically, he was asking us, “Are you from Evansville,” the town where he would be living with his forever family. I told him I was from Chicago and that became my name for the rest of the week. So now, whenever I first see Reece, I give him a big hug and say, “Hello, Evansville,” and he replies with, “Hello, Chicago…”

While the kids were all getting to know each other, I noticed someone very special coming down the stairs with Mama Michelle. My first thought was how sweet and generous of Michelle to get Jonathan dressed and ready for our arrival! She has so many other things going on and two girls of her own to care for, and she took the time with our sweetie.
...This was the first time I was meeting Michelle. Even before we spoke, I knew what a wonderful, loving and kind person she was. ***Thank you, again, Michelle, for such a loving gesture and help with our family’s introduction!***

Michelle handed Jonathan over to me as we exchanged hellos. It felt so good to have my little boy in my arms again! Immediately, all three kids ran over to meet him, hold him and love on him. However, he was going to have no of it! If getting to know these people meant Mama was going to put him down, he did not care to know them. The kids were a bit disappointed at first that they could not share him; however, they got over it as all the others were around ready to be picked up at any time.

Soon it was onto St. Joseph’s Guest House. The team had already unloaded the Tap-Tap and were anxious to get grab dinner. So, we quickly said our goodbyes and headed back with Jonathan in tow. What a night this was going to be ~ four kids and a hungry husband in Haiti for the very first time….

There are so many smiles and hugs wating for the team as they arrive at Three Angels! Reaching up for hugs... The kids are so excited when teams arrive!

I Trust

2008-07-23T22:48:00.000-05:00

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will amke your paths straight.
Proverbs 3:5-6

Day One

2008-07-22T00:00:00.003-05:00

I haven’t posted too much about our trip to Haiti. It has been hard to find the time to sit down, collect my thoughts and write. Life’s been a whirlwind since we have returned. As I looked ahead at my calendar, I really don’t see an end in sight for the crazy schedules. Soon, we will take a mini vacation with the kids up to the Dells, PTO responsibilities start up again in two weeks, and then school begins. Summer went by way too fast for us! So, I am forcing myself to find the time to sit and write. I don’t want to forget about the life-changing experience we had together has a family before I get it down on paper….

We spent the night before the trip in Miami at the Hilton Hotel. It was very nice with wonderful accommodations. The kids were relaxed and comfortable in an environment they were pretty accustomed to ~ nice vacations are something they are very fortunate to go on quite frequently. We spent the evening hanging out in the lush hotel, relaxing by the pool and watching movies on the big screen television in our room.

The view from our hotel room in Miami.

As the evening wore on, anticipation of our travels to Haiti loomed over us. Well, at least loomed over Kate… ...We had to take our anti-Malaria medication that night. Kate HATES to take medicine and her grumpiness loomed over all of us the rest of the night after we forced it down her throat. If her reaction to dealing with the third world country was this awful already (even before arriving), what was it going to be like when she is forced to bathe from a bucket, eat Haitian food, sleep without air conditioning and spend days on end in the humidity with 35 children climbing all over her…? I had a feeling we were in for some “good times” ahead…

The kids woke early Saturday morning ready for the flight to Haiti. We headed to the airport to meet up with the team. The kids sat quietly in the chairs (and I mean quietly – even for my kids!) as they were anxious to meet their brothers, nervous around 16 people they did not know and scared to arrive in Haiti. We sat around playing cards and eating pizza while we waited for our delayed flight to board. Thankfully, the kids are veteran travelers and waiting around in airports does not faze them in the least.

During the flight to Haiti, the kids took turns looking out the windows to see the ocean, Cuba and other Caribbean islands. It really is a cool flight when you think about all you can see during the flight. As we approached the island of Hispanola, they were excited and awe-struck by the views. Tim noticed the magnificent mountain range right away and thought it was beautiful. The girls were surprised by all the “houses” they could see. Even with all we told them about Haiti, they still struggled with the idea that 8 million people living on this little piece of land.

Who could imagine so many homes, so close together in one place?

Time spent at the Port au Prince airport was not so bad. The kids are familiar with the craziness while searching for luggage. Once we stepped foot outside, life was not so quiet and became a little bit overwhelming from the crowds of people, the noises and the commotion. Tim and Meg stuck close by me while Kate held my hand until we got in the van. The ride to the orphanage was long, but a good one for them to see all we had talked about. Asking them over and over what they were thinking, if it was what they thought it would be and how they felt kept the conversation going. So surprised by their surroundings, they were speechless otherwise.

The kids were surprised by all the vendors and really liked the paintings!

As we pulled up to Angel House, I heard my most favorite noise. The children were singing and shouting inside as they learned the team had arrived. I was so anxious to see the children, but even more so for our kids to meet them all!

Latched!

2008-07-21T16:44:00.005-05:00

See what I mean when I said Daniel was latched onto his sisters all week.

Certainly the boy is big enough and capable of standing on his own; however, Meg happily obliged when he asked to be carried around ALL week....

Meg figured out right away that holding the kids is the BEST part of the trip!

Daniel and Papa

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We told Daniel we were going to adopt him on our mission trip in June. Although he was a bit quiet when we told him the news, it was obvious by his reactions he understood and was very pleased. He latched onto the girls immediately and would not leave their side. After spending the night with us at the guest house, he seemed to get it ~ he was finally getting a turn to leave the O and go to the guest house like so many of the other children. It was then when Daniel began to call us "mom" and "papa." After we returned to the O the next morning, Daniel ran up to Junior and told him, "I have a family!" My heart just melted when Junior told us what Daniel had said to him!!!!

I just love this photo! It was taken on the way to our DHS appointment last month. Daniel was so proud that he had a family that day. I asked him to stand by his papa so I could take a picture. He ran right up to Mike and wrapped his little arms around him. I think the look on Daniel's face and the sparkle in his eyes shows it all! I will always remember the moment, the day and the way Daniel expressed his excitement!

Summer Camp '08

2008-07-19T17:09:00.006-05:00

The kids are back from a week at Stronghold Camp. Stronghold, a Presbyterian U.S.A. organization, is a youth christian camp not too far from our home. This was summer number 5 for Tim. Megan has been going to Stronghold for the past four years, and this was Kate's first year to be able to attend. They all really love going to camp and look forward to the week each summer. It's a great way for them to learn about nature, God and getting to know and working together with others. We feel very blessed with the opportunity to be able to send the kids there each year!

This year, Tim was old enough to stay for the entire week. He had a blast and did very well being away from home for 6 straight days. We were very proud of him! Meg and Kate attended Day Camp and both spent the night on Thursday as a "try-out-camp" option. They all loved sleeping in the cabins, having camp fire at night and waking up in the woods in the morning.

More so than anything, the kids LOVE their camp counselors! Most of them come from other countries studying abroad or spending the summer in the States. This year, Tim enjoyed spending the week with his counselor from England and the girls both loved theirs from South Africa. It's a great experience to be able to get to know so many people from other places, play, worship together and share their love for the Lord.

Feels Like Summer....

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...FINALLY!!!!

It's been sunny and in the eighty's this week. We spent a day at Magic Waters, a water park nearby, and lots of time in our backyard pool. Once the river goes down and we can launch the boat, summer will truly start at our house!

Have You Ever....

2008-07-16T00:34:00.005-05:00

...had a day when you feel like you are just going in circles trying to get things done?

And, in the end, it seems as if you accomplished so very little?

Na ou pita Junior!

2008-07-15T17:12:00.009-05:00

We had an awesome time while Junior was here with us. Being the worldly traveler now, he is up in Michigan visiting many of his TA's friends. He is having a great time and enjoying his visit in the States.

Everything went well for Junior while under Mike's care. Mike was very pleased with the test results and the diagnosis is a good one. We pray the Lord takes away Junior's pains and keeps our friend healthy!

We miss him already ~ especially the kids! It was fun for them to have a big brother around the house for a while. :) They are hoping Junior will return so they can take him to Six Flags and Chicago one last time. We will have to see if the Michigan clan will let him go, however...

*On the way to Michigan...

..and wearing a Chicago Bears' hat no doubt!

Missing Our Boys!

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Someone Got a Haircut!

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Thanks for the photo, Kaitlyn!

Fitting In

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I'd say by the looks of this video, Kate fit in just fine with the kids at the orphanage. She just LOVES Mia and had so much fun with her.

Thanks for a great week, Mia! Kate misses you!

naje amizman!

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Swimming Fun!
We are having a great time here with Junior. It is so fun watching his reactions to so many new things here is the States. It's been cool to show him around a bit and take him to some of our favorite places. The kids just love swimming with Junior, too! They have been trying to teach him the strokes so he can stake afloat in the deep end. They hope by tomorrow he will brave the slide and diving board.

All went well with Junior's scope. Mike says things look "good" and we pray the meds will help the pain. Please pray for this for our special Haitian friend!

Wow!

2008-07-02T09:15:00.006-05:00

It was another wonderful week in Haiti for all of us. Tim, Meg and Kate all had a wonderful time. Mike and I are so proud of the way they embraced Haiti. Mike did some amazing procedures in the clinic. God certainly blessed his hands last week with the abilities to help so many Haitian people. Daniel and Jonathan are doing wonderfully and we were able to complete our DHS appointment for their adoption. So much was accomplished at Angel House, as well. It was a week full of miracles and we can thank our Lord for it all!

Our Slugger!

2008-06-17T14:30:00.003-05:00

Tim is playing on the RCH team again this baseball season. It is amazing what one year can do for our slugger. He's matured in many ways - his confidence, skills and abilities to understand the game.

It's been a fun season for the whole family! :-)

Father's Day

2008-06-16T11:56:00.014-05:00

We had a last-minute, rather quiet Father's Day. After spending the morning in the emergency room with Kate, being awake all night while Kate vomited every half hour and keeping Kate recovering from a concussion, we decided to lay low poolside. We had a nice afternoon chillin' together as a family! Mike's parents came by for a visit, we ordered pizza and enjoyed the yummy Father's Day cake from Dairy Queen.

Kate sat to the side with Papa and Grandpa Steve. She had no desire to get

in the water after the night she endured.

Even after the accident, a night of being sick and 4 hours in the hospital, Kate

still has a smile on her face!

Lucky Number Seven!

2008-06-13T13:36:00.008-05:00

Only one week ~ only seven days ~ until we leave for Haiti. Tonight we take our Chloroquine ~ a teeny milestone of our trip. There are so many more ahead and we are so anxious to travel.

The kids finished up VBS this week. Today's bible point was "God gives us the power to go tell His story." My kids completely understood. Meg even shared our mission trip with the class and used it as an example as to how she is going to go to Haiti to share the story of Jesus.

I cannot wait to see how "our world" links up with Haiti for them. I pray our journey helps our children understand just how powerful our Lord truly is for us all!

Posting Delays...

2008-06-10T20:24:00.014-05:00

Wow! I don't recall summer vacation ever keeping me so busy...? I have not even had time to post. Blogging has become something I really enjoy. As I reflect on the happenings of our lives, I appreciate being able to write about it all. Writing it down gives me a chance to work through things, understand what's going on and internally process it all. Hopefully, things will slow down, or I will at least be able to schedule in some more frequent writing soon.

I feel as if I am in a holding pattern here emotionally and mentally. We are still praying, hoping, wishing and wanting some good news about Daniel's adoption status. I am so anxious for the family trip to Haiti. Since November, when we scheduled this mission trip, we hoped we would be able to tell Daniel he is going to be our son while on this trip. We thought it would be the perfect time with Tim, Megan and Kate there with us. We thought it would be a wonderful experience for our children to be such a "big" part of our family's adoption process. We thought it would be a wonderful celebration with our "whole" family while we all traveled to Haiti together. We thought it would a blessed time to see Daniel's reaction to receiving a mama, papa and three siblings. We thought it would be so cool to explain to Daniel that he has a new Haitian brother living upstairs. We thought it would be such an incredible experience being able to do all of this together ~ all seven of us!

We still pray that all of our "thoughts" will be a reality in another week. Right now, we wait. It seems Daniel's paperwork may possibly be progressing; however, we still do not know for sure what his status is with Social Services and Three Angels. So, for now, we continue to pray, we prepare for our trip and we anxiously await to serve our Lord.

Our Haitian Princes

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.............Jonathan..........................Daniel..................

We Continue to Pray!

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+ =

ANSWERED PRAYERS!!!

Would you please join us as we pray for Daniel's birth certificate to arrive before June 20th.? Without his certificate, our entire adoption process is stalled and we cannot proceed to IBESR with our dossier.

We would love to be able to adopt this little boy and give him a forever family. He sure deserves one after all he has been through!

PRAYING!!!!!

2008-05-29T00:00:00.000-05:00

Thank you for such a beautiful picture, Anne!

Permission or Not?

2008-05-28T20:01:00.003-05:00

It's been something that has weighed heavily on mind most recently ~~~ whether or not I should set a privacy block on our family's blog....?

I pride myself in being a trusting individual, a positive thinker and an optimist of life. I have absolutely no problem being "an open book" for everyone to know. We have nothing to hide. However, I have to be realistic and do not want to possibly compromise my family's safety due to my desire to journal in cyberspace. It is sad, but also the truth, that there are people out there who are not always trustworthy and my number one concern are "MY PEEPS!"

With all this in mind, I have decided to "go private" with our blog. If I don't have your address but you would like access to our blog, please email me and let me know. haitiandreams@yahoo.com Certainly, we do not want to lose any of our blog-buddies!

This Is Today....

2008-05-27T18:42:00.003-05:00

On Sunday and Monday we sat poolside enjoying the warm sun. Today...not so much!

Maybe it isn't below freezing or about to snow, but what in the world is up with our weather???? I can understand the clouds and rain, but 52 degrees... Geesh!

Skype Rocks and...

2008-05-25T22:14:00.002-05:00

so do Sandy and Kaitlyn!

We finally downloaded Skype onto the computers at home. And, I am so glad we did! We received a surprise call from Sandy, Kaitlyn and Jonathan Saturday afternoon when I logged on to check email. Sandy was trying to search for us on Skype after I emailed her about our new account. Thank you, girls, for contacting us!

It was so fun to chat with Sandy and Kaitlyn and talk to Jonathan. Although he could not see us as we were on the laptop without a camera, he was interested in the sounds and words we were saying to him. It was also great to see Kaitlyn LIVE and looking so happy. It is wonderful to hear straight from her that she is settling in at Angel House and enjoying her time there with the team this week. (Karen, you may want to download Skype sometime this summer!)

Thank you so much, Three Angels, for connecting our adoptive world here in the U.S.A. to your world in Haiti! It sure does a mama's heart good to hear and see the children live on the computer. Technology is great, Skype rocks and TA's is a blessings to us all!

Swim Season...

2008-05-24T11:21:00.006-05:00

..has officially started! Yahoo!

Mike and I spent Thursday cleaning, power washing and scrubbing the pool area. It was a warm day and the water temperature was high enough for the kids to take a swim.

It feels so good knowing summer is just around the corner!

Yeah for Kaitlyn!

2008-05-22T16:15:00.007-05:00

Thank you for the photo, Sandy!

Kaitlyn has safely arrived at Angel House with the team of visiting parents. She will be spending the next 3 months volunteering at the orphanage, loving on the kids and helping out as needed. We are so thankful Kaitlyn has taken on God's calling to spend time in Haiti and chose Three Angels as the place to spend her summer. The energy, time and love she will be giving each and every one of the children is going to be such blessings to them all!

Thank you, Kaitlyn, for taking time out of your life to give to Haiti and Three Angels. The love you have for the country and its people is so evident. We are so thankful for the time you will spend at Angel House as it is such a blessing to everyone! We love you and cannot wait to see you in June!

At the Old Ballgame!

2008-05-21T00:02:00.005-05:00

The little girl below has wanted no part of sports. Each time registration would come around, I would offer the option to sign up. Whether it was soccer, basketball or swim, she wanted nothing to do with any team. This spring however, with a little peer pressure, Kate decided to try t-ball.

You would never know the cute Reds player in these pictures is the same child who wanted nothing to do with sports. Kate absolutely loves t-ball! She has a blast sitting on the bench with her friends, running the bases as we cheer her on, and cannot wait until it is her turn at bat. (Only thing is she refuses to wear baseball pants. They are for boys!) What a fun season it has been for everyone, but especially for Kate!

Funny how mom knows best...

Beethoven, Watch Out!

2008-05-20T15:24:00.009-05:00

Spring Piano Recital '08
Faith Lutheran Church

Oh, Little Brothers....

2008-05-19T12:19:00.004-05:00

Yesterday Tim and Megan performed at their piano recital. (I will post about that later.) We were enjoying refreshments with the other families after the performance. There was a family there with four children. All the kids were our children's age; however, they also had a three year old little boy. His name is Troy.

Troy is a "stitch!" He is such a little character and full of energy. He makes us laugh to no end. As a matter of fact, Troy is the little boy who always keeps me entertained during church and boy scout meetings. He just cracks me up with all he has to say. I get such a kick out of the fact that he is always on the go. (Not to mention his mom and dad who are constantly chasing after him!) He reminds me so much of Tim.

We were all sitting around the table enjoying some post-recital treats, as well as thoroughly enjoying Troy's entertainment. Tim just could not stop laughing and was in amazement of Troy's one-liners and funny remarks about everything! At one point, Tim looked at me and said, "He is such a funny kid, Mom!"

I replied, "Little brothers can be so funny. It's going to be just like this when your brothers are home, ya know."

Tim smiled and said, "I can't wait!"

*** Tim loves his sisters, but there is nothing like the love and friendship brothers share! Tim is going to make the BEST big brother to Daniel and Jonathan. I cannot wait to see them together. June cannot come soon enough!

Praying...

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...that this little guy's birth certificate is in Jean Nathan's hands soon! We love you, Daniel, and hope to be able to share some *wonderful news* with you in June.

Our dossier is in Haiti; hopefully being prepared for First Legal. In June, Mike and I will attend our DHS meeting for Jonathan. As long as Daniel's birth certificate has arrived, our dossier will then be ready for IBESR. We pray everything works out and we can get things rolling with the boys' adoptions.

We have also waited to tell Daniel we would like to adopt him. As he is currently a ward of social services, TA's does not have guardianship to him. Once TA's has custody of Daniel (and has his birth certificate), he will be available to adopt. It is then when *we can tell him we want to make him our son.* I pray we are able to do so in June when Tim, Meg and Kate are there with us!

While I visited Angel House a few weeks ago, I spent quality time with Daniel. We played games, read books, did crafts and shared lots of hugs. By the end of the trip, he was calling me *Mama*. My heart was filled with joy as I heard him say that. We continue to pray each day that the Lord will provide for this sweet, little boy. We pray Daniel will be able to become a part of our family and I can tell him I AM his *mama*!

No More Monkeys Jumping On the Bed!

2008-05-15T08:28:00.007-05:00

Cutest monkeys around!

Wow! Kindergarten is almost over… My little Kate is getting ready to move onto the first grade. This year has gone by so quickly as I have watched my Tater Tot change, learn and grow. Looking back and reading my post from last fall when Kate was beginning Kindergarten, I am in awe as to how much she has grown over the last nine months. She has turned into a child who loves to learn, enjoys her school friends and likes being at school. I am so proud of who she is becoming and look forward to watching her continue to blossom during her years in elementary school.

The Three Little Pigs!

Kate’s class had their end-of-the-year program recently. In lieu of a kindergarten graduation, the class celebrated their learning with a darling play “No Monkeying Around!” There were 19 monkeys performing songs, dances, rhymes and stories. It was a lot of fun for all the children and really fun to watch! Kate worked hard memorizing songs and lines for the program. We were so proud of her efforts and hard work.

"Mama called the doctor and the doctor said..."

Katie, you have had a wonderful year in Kindergarten! Mommy and Daddy are so proud of all you have accomplished. You learned how to say goodbye without tears and even walked into the morning line on your own as time went on. By the middle of the school year, we were amazed that you were beginning to READ, and your counting and number skills were at the top! Friendships grew and you adored each of your classmates. You worked hard at keeping games fair for everyone and always had kind wishes for them, too. You are growing into a wonderful person, Kate! Mommy and Daddy could not be more proud of you. We love you, Sweetie, and cannot wait to see what First Grade will bring for you.

Love and kisses,
Mom and Dad

And Now For the......

2008-05-14T17:58:00.006-05:00

P A J A M A S !

Boxes and PJ's...

2008-05-13T13:22:00.018-05:00

A shoebox, pair of pajamas and a cubby are ordinary objects to many. At Angel House, these three things are way more than simple. They are something to call "your own!"One afternoon, after receiving a shoebox labeled with their names, the children decorated them with stickers. Carefully, each child placed the specially chosen stickers onto the sides and top of the box. Everyone loved the elephant stickers, and the boys thought the "machine" stickers were pretty cool! They really enjoyed decorating the boxes and couldn't wait to bring them downstairs.
We weren't finished with our box project yet, however. Each child was then able to pick from a stack of brand new pajamas. ~~Sandy wanted each child to have their own set of pjs in hopes to make laundry easier. She also hopes the kids will grasp the bedtime routine a bit better, as well. Each morning, pjs will be placed back into the box for safe keeping until bedtime.~~ Everyone had a great time choosing pj's and placing them in the box. Now they were really anxious to bring the boxes downstairs!
And, finally, we would! The children were so excited! They all placed their boxes in a "cubby" and rolled up their blankets to also be placed in there. After we finished putting everything away, we explained once the pj's learned to stay in their place each and every day, the children could add some of their own things into the boxes. What excitement that idea brought to their little faces!

Sandy plans to work on this new system for a bit. Once the children have it down, there is yet another special surprise for each box. What a fun day that will be at Angel House! I cannot wait to share it with them in June!

I am sometimes amazed at how something so simple can make the children's day. I can imagine, however, when there are 19 others to share a room, the dinner table, and even a bed at times, something of "your own" becomes pretty special. I am so glad we were able to give that something special to each of the children at Angel House last week. It made them so happy and they really did understand the idea.

...Many even asked if they would be able to take their box and pjs with them when they go home.... Doesn't that just warm your heart???!!!

Singing...

2008-05-12T21:51:00.004-05:00

...but, no rain this time... with lots of dancing and playing! What a great time we had in Haiti!